I prefer the mopar performance ones (felpro also makes them--like 11 bucks at autozone, part # VS50184R)). The are a composite material (looks like thin cardboard) that is sandwiched with thin layers of rubber. They work very well. You can even tear off a layer and re-use them. I have done that several times now.
I glue my valve cover gaskets to the valve cover with RTV, and use nothing between the gasket and the head. I put RTV on the valve cover, and then put the gasket on, and then, I set it down on a flat surface with about 5 lbs of weight on it to let the RTV cure. This way, the gasket comes off with the valve cover, and there is very little to clean up off the head where it can get in places you don't want it to. It seems to work very well for me. It's also very hard to over torque these style gaskets, unless you have no clue what 10-15 ft lbs is. If you do it this way, by gluing the gasket to the valve cover, it will solve the problem of the bent bolt holes in the valve cover also.