Thanks to Bogie for the FAQ!
The easiest way to switch high current accessories on & off is to use a relay.Here is the proper way wire one.
There are two diffrent relays that will be used for the most part in automotive situations,SPDT & SPST.
Single position single throw which will switch both output terminals (87 & 87a) on or off when power is applied to the trigger terminal.
Single position double throw which will switch between the two output terminals (87 & 87a) when power is applied to the trigger terminal.